I’ve had a few moments in the past, even recently, where a culmination of insights have come to light. An experience can define an emerging shift, or in contrast, a slow evolving that finally makes its peak. Nonetheless, here I am feeling the importance of being still in the midst of activity, in a world where we must leverage every moment and maximize it.
It’s Exhausting.
Yes, more is more, but at what cost?
What is the ends to the means, when we use others as stepping stones to get where we want to go, never taking into account the damage that ensues? Yes, I am talking a little bit in code here. It never ceases to amaze the agenda behind every action that is self-serving. Especially in some circles I step one foot into from time to time. Hence, the importance being, one foot. As I have learned early on just how essential that is in keeping one’s center.
First of all, why rush? Where in actuality we should be slowing down to make better decisions. Usually, the need to rush comes from fear. Countless examples, expose being controlled by fear from non life threatening experiences never bodes well. We tend to get sloppy, missing vital details. I’m not talking about split gut decisions, but choices centered around others, or a community, where various points of view should be taken into account.
Objectivity is normal for those knowing we are not at the center of the universe. There are many players on the field, and being sensitive to that, is part of one’s evolving consciousness. Many make the claim, but don’t embody it by their actions.
What to do?
When I see this, I turn it back onto myself. What principles do I aspire to live, and better yet, embody? To be it in my bones as well as in my actions. This is an internal exercise, and one many may never see. That it okay. We don’t do it to be seen. We do it to be more resilient. When living by these standards, something begins to shift, in big ways.
Big picture thinking serves more than it takes. Whereas the takers must maneuver from lower energies of control. Ascending to the level of objectivity makes one magnetic. However, keep in mind, it will repel those who don’t live it.
Be still. Do the work, quietly. Be a magnet for higher, ultimately more subtle, powerful energy. Finding fulfillment from one’s inner well is an unlimited resource. Unlike the parasitic approach of needing a host to feed upon.
All great philosophers spoke about finding fulfillment within, and is prominent in yoga philosophy. It is really that simple, but simple is not always easy. That is why few do it. Even in yoga practice we are being guided to confront what is challenging, from time to time. While maintaining (hopefully) an equanimous center.
Embodiment comes from stillness. One reason why we are led to be anchored in our center when engaging in yoga and meditation practices. Whether focused on the breath, or the gazing point, we must draw from our internal well. It’s a skill that is cultivated, which is why in the beginning, it can feel unsettling. These important principles are rarely offered in our formative schooling.
Connecting to one’s center and acting on it, takes a whole other level of courage. It demands fortitude, and stamina. Some go by other means, but those who have changed the course for the better, had no other choice but to exist in this potent realm of being. It’s a calling.
Even when people do you wrong, remain internally still. It doesn’t mean action isn’t taken, but let the emotions ride before anything is done. Watch and observe, and sit with what has transpired. If rash reactions take place, often the trigger only gives the perpetrator more power. Seeing is all that needs to be done, because once you know what is true, there is no turning back to where you were before. Then one rises to another vantage point of knowing more, and seeing even better. So moving forward, you know exactly what to entertain, and what not to in various relationships. The subtle reward is greater clarity amongst strength. Time and time again, restraint is what’s needed, because knowing when to act, is a matter of accurate timing.
We grow from stillness.
It doesn’t mean nothing is done. We are not talking about wallflower energy. It’s a mental aptitude in bringing awareness to the forefront, choosing to no longer be beaten by the waves of emotional upheaval. Yes, some will actually try to provoke, or even stir a reaction, because siphoning energy is part of the plan. Inner stillness is about being clued into energy drains and putting a boundary around it.
One of my favorite antidotes is the representation of a light house. A light house stands strong, still and shines, guiding a path for ships to harbor. When we do the inner work we can simply stand, and be who we are, as what we align to will attract what we need. We draw it in. We keep our eyes on a higher vision. Ascending to uplifting attributes, for what unfolds will then be as easy as a flower in bloom during spring. It’s natural. It’s you complete and whole. Without the mind waves of distraction. The unlimited source reveals its abundance.
Stand still. Be one with your thoughts, words and actions.
Yes, there is wrong doing in the world, and believe me, I am not saying never to speak out or take significant action. Let the feelings ride. So when its time to speak, and act, it comes from the center, and not the reactionary ripple of the mind. Getting settled within the seat of one’s internal core will become a solace, even in times of challenge, as well as discomfort.
Nothing can be taken from you if it already lives inside. That is why doing the internal work necessary will create a bond that is unbreakable. Yes, the world will do as it will, but you will be exactly what you are intended to be. Whatever you have set your mind on. That is why it goes back to stillness, because you will know what to do, simply because you know who you are.
Beautifully said. Your words continue to resonate. Thank you for sharing dearest Laruga 🤍
Thank you for sharing your thoughts . This is such a timely message . Blessings to you .